Venture Ventura

After a little over a week of our potty training endeavor, I loaded up the boys and

we headed to Ventura (Shawn stayed to study).

Orin loves his cousin Randy and was so excited to get to go & stay at his house.

Here were our highlights:

*Riding to their pool in a wagon... a first for my kids. Oh the joys of begin a kid

(reminds me of our trips to Kings Island, I think my brother Jake was like 10 years old riding in the wagon!)

*Swimming. Their pool rocks. It has a large ledge for the kids to walk on, one for the little ones to sit on & a hot tub! I felt like I was at a resort.

*Noodle fights!

*Walking to the park... well until both boys pooped their pants! Still working on that potty training thing!

*Watching movies (The Fox and the Hound- a classic) and eating delicious snacks- worms in dirt pudding & popcorn (Brody enjoyed eating all the seeds!)

*Being at the beach. This summer my boys are at a much better age for beach going- they both walk & have no desire to eat sand or go in the water alone (Brody hates cold water-he gets it from his Papa & mama! & Orin's actually a little scared of the waves-kind of a surprise) which makes the beach a vast sand box for them and paradise for me!

(pic taken with phone... note blur-kind of like it... no desire to load children & camera)

(Isn't Callie the cutest thing ever! Love the chub!)

*Cafe Rio! What! That's right it's hit Cali & we went two nights in a row (thanks Randy & Ashley). I was totally spoiled!

I swear they put some sort of drug in there pork salad... yum! There's just something about the mix of the sweet pork, cilantro lime dressing, melted cheese homemade tortilla- okay- now I'm totally crazing it.

Totally brings back memories of living in Provo & going there with great friends. Love the Rio!

We have so much fun and can't wait to venture back!

It's Potty Time!

There were two things that I had on my "mommy do list" for the summer, so the day after school was out I...

1. Took away Brody's bottle (which was pretty much his only source of nutrition-quite frustrating!)
Note: Brody did so well adjusting. I was shocked.

(photo taken just a few days before I swipe the bottle... he he he!)

2. Potty Train Ory (definitely tired of changing TWO sets of diapers! yuck!)
After seeking some advice from my sister-in-law Ashley (who had just conquered potty training Randy), I made Orin a potty training chart & he wanted to earn a trip to cousin Randy's house!
Each successful trip to the can, meant he got to move his little car closer to his best bud's house & he loved that he was driving!
We definitely had some bumps "on the road" and well, it's been 2 months and there are still "bumps" but he's sporting those BIG BOY underwear well...

(this was the reaction I got when I asked Orin to show me his big boy underwear... look out!)

Here are some things I have learned from these two experiences:
1. Never leave Ory alone on the toilet
2. It takes a long time for them to actually TELL you they have to go (still waiting for that!)
3. Never leave home without some spare attire
4. Having a kid go in the toilet is SOO much better... but only if they make it there!
5. I often expect these changes to be quite hard, but I think sometimes it's the parent that has the hardest time making the adjustment!
Any tricks when potty training your kids?

**Post Edit: forgot to include some of the funny things that Orin does: he loves being told stories (almost always include these elements: super hero orin, dragons, castles, swords, & ropes... sometimes mommy, daddy & Brody) while he's sitting on the pot & he usually describes his poo- sick yet funny... usually they are meatballs, snakes, but sometimes you get the random turtle or shark!

6 years

June 5th

{I realize it's now August, but I figure I'll try to catch-up seasonally... first up, Summer 2010!}

Shawn and I celebrated SIX years of marriage!

Six things I LOVE about Shawn:

1. He is incredibly thoughtful & generous

{he always makes sure to have your favorite soda if you come over & making or getting things for others}

2. He is forgiving... never holds a grudge... ever!

{usually he has to forgive me for something on a daily basis}

3. He is patient & understanding

{hardly ever loses his tempter or loses control... which is impressive with our "spunky" boys & his crazy wife!}

4. He is very complimentary

{he makes me feel like the most beautiful women ever & is always telling the boys, "Isn't mommy pretty!"}

5. He is a true friend

{to me & to others... he never hesitates to help someone who needs it}

6. He is devoted

{to his family-his boys LOVE him... to me... to the gospel of Jesus Christ... the list goes on & on...}

We were lucky enough to have family in town to celebrate with. Our highlights were:

The Cherry Festival Parade

I snuck away to buy Shawn some much needed sunglasses... and was able to make a much needed trip to the salon to get my hair done!

We share our anniversary with Shawn's boss, and it just so happened to be their 40th wedding anniversary....

so...

we got to spend our anniversary @ Morton's steakhouse! Which included family,

(Mason & Melina, Randy & Dixie, Ashley & Randy, & even Christine & Brigham whose anniversary is the day before ours!),

friends, and AMAZING food...

it was the perfect night!

I LOVE you Shawn!

{thanks Crissa for helping me accessorize my outfit & Carrie for babysitting!}

Dr. Seuss Party- A Person's a Person No Matter How Small!

**just spent FOREVER on this post and then something weird happened with blogger... I need blogging assistance!! I am beyond annoyed... so here we go again!

I can't believe a year ago our lil Brod was born. Time has flown by, but I just couldn't imagine my life without him! I fully intend on still trying to catch up on all that has been happening in our crazy lives, but didn't want to put off sharing all about...

Brody's 1st birthday!

(which I realize it's been over a month... if feels like it just happened!)

I was trying to think of what to do and thought about how much my boys like it when we read to them, so Dr. Seuss was perfect! I had tons of fun planning and shopping for it (thanks Johanna... we had such a fun adventure running around party planning! She helped so much and set up all the decorations at the party... couldn't have done it without her!)

Details of the party:

*While thinking about the theme, my very creative mom reminded me the Thing One/Thing Two shirts we had seen @ Universal Orlando... so excited to find them here (of course the fact that Brody was turning one... Thing One, and Orin is still two... Thing Two, was totally exciting for me... love the little details!)

*I made a cut out thingy (what do you call those?) for the kids to take pictures... (plus I thought it would be perfect for Dr. Seuss day in my classroom or my kids classrooms... do you think they'll be sick of getting their picture taken with in by junior high! I saw too bad! :)

*We played the fishing game... *Note: if I were to do this again I would: A. not use cardstock and laminate or B. make sure I had a heavy duty magnet!

*Played Pin the Star on the Sneetch!

*Did a "Book Walk" where each kid passed around Seuss characters as the Seuss music played (found some music from Seussical the Musical-didn't know about that one before!) and then when it stopped, I picked a card and the kid with the match got to pick a book. It was fun for the kids to get to take a book home and luckily we had enough! :)

*Had some Oh the Places You'll Go! activities: Pat & Hershel have a kids size Jeep and ridable train... I think this was a highlight for Ory!

*Decorations: Pat had tons of posters and stuffed animals which were perfect to use around the food table. We bought glass jars & pebbles @ the Dollar Store and $.29 fish as the center piece for all the tables. (We caught Ory climbing on the table to "hold the fish!")

Crissa was awesome and cut tons out red circles for me to spread around the white table cloths for the food & cake tables.

Johanna made "green eggs" which I know was tons of work, but I LOVE IT!

Served ham sandwiches, hot dogs, chips, goldfish (one fish, two fish), had the candy jars and of course an amazing cake by Amber & amazing cupcakes by Nia, Carrie and Melina! Had to call in Ory to help Brod on the cake... he wasn't too interested in it... unlike his brother's 1st bday (see here!)

So many people helped and I am so blessed to have such amazing family & friends! ThanksErica for the pics, Madison & Colleen for being the helpers, my in-laws for coming down and Dixie for helping watch the kids when you were having such bad knee pain!, Ally for all your help, my mom for the cute red/white striped shirt (here's a pic to prove I wore it! :)... the list goes on and on!

(had to post this pic... I look hilarious! Fong gave Brody this dinosaur pop up book with realistic sounds- obviously I was shocked!)

It was tons of fun and so glad to celebrate such a special little boy!

Brody... we love you!!

Raising the BAR

Tomorrow Shawn takes the BAR... again... for the 4th time. While talking to my mom about our battle with the BAR, she said raising the BAR seemed a better description and I TOTALLY agree! I'm not going to lie... going through this challenge hasn't been easy for us, yet I feel it has raised us up and strengthen us. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger, right? I can see a difference in myself. Things that I had needed to do in my life, I have started to move toward them and pushed myself to do more.

So this is how we have tried to Raise the BAR:
Shawn: focused on his spiritual, mental, physical self: From working out each day, to scripture study, to BAR study, to getting a tutor... my husband has really stepped it up and I'm very proud (he did a great job in the past too, but we just tried to raise that bar a little higher this time!)
Me: MAKING dinner (healthy, maybe not creative, but hey it's a start!), trying to work out before work and if not having dance parties with the kids and chasing them everywhere! Nightly family and personal scripture study, prayer etc... those basics that I have done, but I feel like I've really tried to raise the bar for myself too!
The biggest thing for me has been to learn more about the principle of faith. In the past, I had always had this fear, a fear he would not pass. Throughout this process, I've learned to put faith in Shawn and my Heavenly Father and not fear... this has been such a wonderful lesson for me to learn. I know that everything will work out and am very blessed! I didn't always handle Shawn not passing as well as I should have, mostly because I wanted to be home with my kids, but I am grateful to have had some time to try and show Shawn that I believe in him and am a support to him.
Orin: So cute, he usually remember to pray that daddy will pass the BAR on his own. Today the first thing he said to me when I got home was "Daddy is studying and going to pass the BAR today." Such a good little support for his daddy! :)
Brody: He just continues to smile & be a pretty happy guy (although teething lately hasn't been fun for him).

Ory LOVES the song: "I Love to See the Temple" and always asks to go to the temple. So on Shawn's way to Ontario, we stopped by the temple as family. We just stood outside because the grounds were not open, but had a little prayer and Ory had to pick me a flower (one of his new favorite things to do).

Then we went to dinner @

which is one of my favorite places to eat. It was the perfect way to send Shawn off... he's ready, we're ready and we are one happy family! :) Like the song says "As a child of God I've learned this truth... A family is forever." I'm sure glad I get to spend forever with my little family!

***Post Edit: Just wanted to also say how grateful we are for such amazing friends/family! We are so blessed to have you and appreciate your love & support! :)